Your Divorce.
Your Terms.
Your Plan.
OwnYourDivorce is a Virginia-focused divorce preparation platform for self-represented individuals and couples who have already agreed on major issues. Create separation agreements, generate court documents, organize financial information, develop parenting plans, and prepare for filing with intelligent tools, practical resources, and step-by-step guidance designed to help you navigate the divorce process with clarity and confidence—all in one place.
- Developed by a Virginia Attorney
- Step-by-step guidance
- Virginia-focused documents
- Filing instructions specific to Virginia
- Secure, private, and easy to use
OYD is not a law firm. OYD does not provide legal advice or legal representation. OYD provides legal information only.
Designed For
Couples who agree on all major issues.
Children or No Children
Agreement Reached
Property & Debts
Agreement Reached
Spousal Support
If Applicable
Child Support
If Applicable
Separation Agreement
Included
Virginia Filing
Self Preparation & Instructions
OYD Intelligence Platform™
Everything you need in one intelligent platform.
Purpose-built modules guide you through your Virginia uncontested divorce — from case organization to filing.
CaseIQ™
Case Management & Organization
Dashboard, timeline, progress tracking, readiness indicators, task management, and next-step recommendations — your command center.
Learn moreAgreementIQ™
Agreement Building & Analysis
Build and finalize your Separation Agreement — property division, child support, spousal support, custody provisions, and settlement analysis.
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AI Document Review
AI-assisted completeness checks, consistency analysis, typical clauses, and signature readiness review of your generated documents.
Learn moreFinancialIQ™
Financial Organization & Planning
Plaid-powered financial aggregation — asset & debt inventory, net worth dashboard, settlement scenarios, budget analysis, and financial disclosure support.
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Support Planning
Virginia child support calculations (sole, shared, split custody), spousal support planning, and side-by-side support comparisons.
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Parenting Plan Development
Build comprehensive parenting plans with custody schedules, holiday schedules, summer schedules, and parenting calendars.
Learn moreFilingIQ™
Virginia Filing Guidance & Documents
Generates your Virginia court documents (Complaint, VS-4, Acceptance/Waiver, Affidavits, Final Decree, filing packets) plus county-specific filing instructions, checklists, and court process guidance.
Learn moreMilitaryIQ™
Military Divorce Guidance
Military retirement, TSP, SBP information, PCS considerations, deployment planning, and military-specific divorce resources.
Learn moreMediationIQ™
Settlement & Mediation Preparation
Mediation worksheets, settlement worksheets, issue identification, and referral to Virginia mediators.
Learn moreAttorneyIQ™
Attorney Transition & Collaboration
Attorney shared access portal, attorney dashboard, consultation packets, case summary exports, and seamless transition to retained counsel.
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Why Choose OwnYourDivorce™?
Attorney-Curated Workflows
Forms that have been used by Attorneys with real-world court experience.
Focused on Agreement
For couples who have already agreed on core issues and want to move forward properly and efficiently.
Private & Secure
Your information is encrypted and private. Nothing is shared or sold. Ever.
Support When You Need It
Ask Sarah is available 24/7 to answer Virginia divorce questions at every step of your journey.
Built for Real Families
Designed for self-represented Virginia couples. Plain language and clear guidance.
Proudly Focused on Virginia
Built specifically for Virginia courts, laws, and filing requirements — not a generic national tool.
Your Path Forward
Your Divorce Roadmap™
A clear, guided path from start to final decree.
Create Your Account
Sign up and tell us the basics about your Virginia divorce — who's involved, whether children are part of the agreement, and where you are in the process.
Answer Guided Questions
Our intelligent intake walks you through various topics — property, debts, retirement, support, parenting, and more.
Review Your Agreement Draft
AgreementIQ™ automatically generates your Separation Agreement based on your responses. Review it section by section, make adjustments, and refine until it's exactly right.
Sign Your Documents
Download your finalized, court-ready documents. Review the signature and notarization requirements for Virginia and execute your agreement properly.
File With Confidence
FilingIQ™ gives you step-by-step guidance and direction.
The Process
How It Works
Simple steps. Clear guidance. Peace of mind.
Answer Questions
Answer focused questions about your situation and agreement so nothing is missed.
Build Your Documents
Your self-help documents are automatically generated upon completion and ready for review.
Review & Sign
Review everything carefully and prepare for signing as appropriate when you're ready to proceed.
File With Confidence
Get step-by-step filing guidance.
Ask Sarah™
Your Virginia AI Divorce Assistant
Get plain-English answers to your questions about Virginia divorce laws, court processes, and agreement provisions — available throughout every step of your journey.
Plain-English Answers
Understand terms, processes, and legal forms.
Virginia-Specific Guidance
Get information that applies to Virginia courts.
24/7 Availability
Get help whenever you need it.
Not Legal Advice
Educational information, not legal advice.
Ask Sarah™
Virginia AI Divorce Assistant
Plan. Prepare. Move Forward.
Sarah is available 24/7 to answer your Virginia divorce questions — educational information to help you understand your options and plan your next steps with confidence.
Pricing
Choose Your Path
Start free. Buy documents when you need them. Or unlock the full OYD Intelligence Platform™ for planning, organization, and guided preparation.
Explore the platform before you commit. No credit card required.
- Ask Sarah™ (3 questions)
- Divorce Readiness Assessment
- Divorce Roadmap
- Child Support Calculator
- Spousal Support Estimator
- OYD Platform Tour
- Module Previews
Upgrade to unlock planning tools and document generation.
Attorney-prepared uncontested divorces often start around $1,500–$5,000+. OYD provides attorney-developed self-help guidance and document preparation tools for a fraction of that cost.
OYD is not a law firm, not your attorney, and does not provide legal advice.
One-Time Guided Divorce Packages
Prepare your Virginia uncontested divorce through the OYD platform. Complete guided questionnaires, generate your documents, track your progress, and access step-by-step filing instructions from your personalized dashboard. Each package includes a one-time purchase with platform access for the period and is not a recurring subscription.
Simple Filing Package
For divorces with no property, no debts, no assets, and no children.
- 90 Days of OYD Dashboard Access
- Guided Divorce Questionnaire
- Separation Agreement Generation
- Document Generation
- Case Progress Tracker
- Filing Instructions
- PDF & Word Downloads
- Complaint
- VS-4
- Acceptance / Waiver
- Affidavits
- Final Decree
Not Included
- MediationIQ™
- ReviewIQ™
- FinancialIQ™
- SupportIQ™
- ParentingIQ™
- MilitaryIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
Family Settlement Package
For divorces involving children. Includes separation agreement generation.
- 180 Days of OYD Dashboard Access
- Everything in Simple Filing
- Separation Agreement Generation
- Custody Provisions
- Parenting Provisions
- Child Support Provisions
- Child-Related Court Documents
Not Included
- MediationIQ™
- ReviewIQ™
- FinancialIQ™
- SupportIQ™
- ParentingIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
- MilitaryIQ™
Enhanced Settlement Divorce Package
Includes guidance for military families navigating a Virginia divorce, extended platform access, asset, debts and property provisions and name change.
- 365 Days of OYD Dashboard Access
- Everything in Family Settlement
- Asset, Debt & Property Provisions
- Name Change
- Military Retirement Provisions
- TSP Provisions
- Survivor Benefit Plan Language
- Military Commonly Used Clauses
- Military Divorce Guidance
Not Included
- Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)
- Military Pension Division Order
- MediationIQ™
- ReviewIQ™
- FinancialIQ™
- SupportIQ™
- ParentingIQ™
- MilitaryIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
*Includes common military settlement provisions. Does not include preparation of specialized retirement division orders.
Get StartedAll packages include Read-Only Retention Period, upgrade path to OYD Intelligence Platform™, and Reopen Case option ($99).
Add Name Change to any package for $99.
Full Platform Subscriptions
Planning, organization, analysis, document generation, and attorney transition tools — all in one platform.
Navigator™
Plan, organize, and prepare for an uncontested Virginia divorce with guided tools, separation agreement preparation, a personalized roadmap, and divorce insights.
- Ask Sarah™ AI Assistant
- Child Support Calculator
- Spousal Support Calculator
- Asset & Debt Organizer
- Issue Spotting & Readiness Tools
- Personalized Roadmap & Case Timeline
- Progress Dashboard & Task Management
- Document Vault
- Separation Agreement Generation
- Calendar & Deadline Tracking
- MediationIQ™
Not Included
- FilingIQ™
- AgreementIQ™
- FinancialIQ™
- ParentingIQ™
- MilitaryIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
Strategist™
Comprehensive settlement planning and agreement preparation.
- Everything in Navigator™
- AgreementIQ™
- SupportIQ™
- ParentingIQ™
- MediationIQ™
- Unlimited Vault
- Attorney Consultation Packet
- Separation Agreement Generation
- Settlement Planning Tools
- FilingIQ™
- Name Change
Not Included
- MilitaryIQ™
- ReviewIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
- FinancialIQ™
Court Prep™
Advanced preparation for filing, share access with your attorney.
- Everything in Strategist™
- FinancialIQ™ + Plaid Integration
- FilingIQ™
- ReviewIQ™
- AttorneyIQ™
- Attorney Shared Access & Dashboard
- Filing Packet Assembly
- Court Checklists & Reports
- Advanced Timeline Tools
- Enhanced Ask Sarah™
- MilitaryIQ™
Not Included
- Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)
- Military Pension Division Order
Annual and Monthly subscription options. Cancel anytime. No prorated refunds. Fees paid are non-refundable.
Compare All Plans
See exactly what's included in every package and subscription tier.
| Feature | Simple Filing$399 | Family Settlement$699 | Enhanced Settlement$899 | Navigator™$99/mo | Strategist™$149/mo | Court Prep™$199/mo |
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| Dashboard Access | 90 days | 180 days | 365 days | Active sub | Active sub | Active sub |
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Ask Sarah™
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